Self-Control & Masturbation

Learn to recognize the Shepherd’s voice over shame. Explore God’s design for your sex drive, the difference between conviction and condemnation, and how to walk in grace and victory as a son of God.

Becoming Undeceived

Unmask the deception of lust and reclaim your mind. Understand how lust distorts truth, weakens the soul, and how the enemy deceives men. This module shines light on the battle and equips you to win it.

Defining Pornography

Break agreement with destruction and live clean. See pornography for what it is—idolatry. Learn how to reject the vile and walk in holiness, protecting your heart, mind, and future.

About the Course

This Bible study course is designed for Christian men of all ages based on 1 John 2:12–14. It helps participants understand and walk in purity, develop self-control through the power of the Holy Spirit, and confront lust and pornography with biblical truth and practical tools. Whether you're struggling or mentoring others, this course equips you to grow in holiness and strengthen others in their walk.

Meet Your Mentor

Mike Caven shares not just teachings, but the hard-won lessons of an internal battle. His struggle wasn’t with outward behavior alone—it was with the deeper heart conflict surrounding identity, desire, and surrender. Wrestling with God’s truth in the quiet places of his soul, Mike learned that purity begins in the heart long before it shows in the habits. Through The Choice and The Challenge, he invites men into that same honest process—not one of shame, but of transformation through knowing the Father’s voice, love, and purpose.

Course Curriculum

3 Chapters · 30 Lessons

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    Module 1: Self-Control & Masturbation

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      Introduction

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      Part 1 - A

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      Part 1 - B

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      Part 1 - C

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      Part 2 - A

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      Part 2 - B

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      Part 2 - C

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      Part 3 - A

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      Part 3 - B

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      Part 3 - C

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    Module 2: Lust – Becoming Undeceived

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      Introduction

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      Part 1 - A

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      Part 1 - B

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      Part 1 - C

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      Part 2 - A

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      Part 2 - B

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      Part 2 - C

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      Part 3 - A

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      Part 3 - B

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      Part 3 - C

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    Module 3: Defining Pornography

    1. (Included in full purchase)

      Introduction

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      Part 1 - A

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      Part 1 - B

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      Part 1 - C

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      Part 2 - A

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      Part 2 - B

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      Part 2 - C

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      Part 3 - A

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      Part 3 - B

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      Part 3 - C

Where Are You on Your Journey?

Start your journey today toward self-control, freedom from lust, and deeper intimacy with God. This course is not about perfection—it's about direction, brotherhood, and becoming the man God created you to be.

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